Understanding and Directing the Forces that Shape your Life
We live in a world where most of us live our lives trying to survive the day. We react, life carries us away and we don’t have time for ourselves. We must claim that time take control of our lives if we want to get the ultimate edge.
When we fail we usually think it’s because a lack of resources. Didn’t have enough money, enough time, enough supporters, etc. In reality it’s a lack of resourcefulness. And the ultimate resource is human emotion.
So, success in life (whatever it means to you) is a combination of mastering 2 things:
Achievement without fulfilment is the ultimate failure.Tony Robbins
Both achievement and fulfilment depend on our daily actions and psychology. And the actions we’re taking and the psychological strength that we have are the result of our past decisions.
Decisions shape our destiny. And there are 3 decisions that we’re making constantly either consciously or unconsciously:
- What to focus on – Where focus goes energy flows.
- What does it mean – In essence does it mean pain or pleasure?
- What actions to take – Or not take
Our decisions depend on two things: our current state (in the moment) and our blueprint (long term).
Happiness and unhappiness
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There’s a simple formula for both of them:
- We are happy when our current state equals our blueprint
- We are unhappy when they don’t match
There are 3 actions we can take when we feel unhappy: